It wasn't just any day. Or any Sunday.
It was January 20, 2013 - the day of my Incorporation, the day I officially became a Daughter of Charity.
"I will bless the Lord at all times, with praise ever in my mouth. Let my soul glory in the Lord, who will hear the cry of the poor..."
It was the first time I wore the habit, when I signed the dotted line, when I received the Vincentian cross, when I first felt increasingly paranoid my coiffe (veil) was slipping off my head (and it was), when I first met so many wonderful Sisters in St. Louis, when I first saw my name written as "Sister Amanda".
But now, everything's different.
Back in 2013, I thought I had everything figured out. It was the start of my new life...a new life that was laid out for me. And wow, was I so excited to start it. I had the community to fall back on when nothing else worked out. I had a community to be with, to pray with, to minister with.
I haven't regretted my decision since I left but man, anniversaries suck.
The anniversary hasn't even happened yet and it's already getting to me. I snapped at a friend today because of something it turned out they didn't even do. After three frantic apology emails, I realized what this was truly about - the anniversary.
I'm in a spot I've never been in before.
Have I lived alone before? Yes.
Have I had professional jobs before community? Absolutely.
But I've never before been a 31 year old living on my own with no idea what happens next. Most 31-year-olds are already well on a career path; most are already married and/or parents; some have already graduated grad school...or more. I'm behind the curve - not just in an academic subject or a hobby, but in life.
The world is wide open to me. People tell me that that's exciting. To me, it's completely terrifying. And even sad.
"Let the lowly hear and be glad: the Lord listens to their pleas; and to hearts broken, God is near, who will hear the cry of the poor..."
I did have a plan for my life. But, to my surprise, it was the wrong one. And now it's gone.
It's time to start over.
But God is near.
And He'll grieve with me.
And walk with me on the new path.
(sidenote: sorry to everyone that I may snap at this week)
"Ev’ry spirit crushed, God will save; will be ransom for their lives; will be safe shelter for their fears, and will hear the cry of the poor..."